Ask the questions you cannot ask on Facebook and receive professional guidance from divorce coach and psychotherapist Eve Stanway.
Accredited psychotherapist / 25+ years' experience / Divorce coach & author
A private online space for anyone facing separation or divorce, rebuilding afterwards, or supporting someone they care about.
£35 per month, including VAT
Your founding rate stays fixed while your membership continues.
Founding membership closes on 31 August 2026, or when all 60 places are taken.
Should I stay or leave?
How do I tell my partner?
What should we say to our children?
Should I reply to that message?
How do I set a boundary without starting another argument?
How do I prepare for mediation?
How can I support someone I love?
How do I begin again after divorce?

Bring your question, your half-written message, or the decision you have been trying to make alone. You will have somewhere calm and private to explore what happens next.
Led by an accredited psychotherapist with 25+ years' experience.
Large Facebook groups can provide connection. They can also expose personal information to thousands of strangers, and the advice can be contradictory, inflammatory or based on someone else's circumstances.
Your name, photo and story visible to thousands.
Advice from strangers, often contradictory.
Threads that escalate rather than settle.
Guidance shaped by someone else's circumstances.
No one accountable for what is said.
Hosted away from Facebook and public social media.
You may use a pseudonym.
Content curated by accredited professional coaches.
Discussions professionally moderated.
Members protect one another's privacy.
No personal attacks or discrimination.
Never used to vilify former partners.
Harmful advice is addressed.
Members directed to qualified professionals when needed.
Practical, grounded support to steady emotions, reduce panic and help you think clearly about your next steps.
Choose the pathway that matches where you are, and change it as your life changes.
Join the fortnightly Live Answers Hour. Every session is recorded and posted inside.
Eve is present at least three times a week to answer questions and share guidance.
Use the two included courses and a growing library of written, video and audio resources.
Hosted away from social media. Pseudonyms welcome. You decide how much to share.
Choosing support during separation is a personal decision. You can read what clients, course members and others who have worked with Eve have said about their experiences.

You may still love your partner while feeling exhausted by the relationship. Understand what is happening, prepare for the conversations ahead, and consider your choices without pressure.

Legal correspondence, finances, parenting and difficult communication, often all at once, sometimes while still living together. Find guidance on boundaries, co-parenting, mediation and the decisions that need your attention first.

Divorce can be legally complete long before life feels settled. Explore confidence, loneliness, co-parenting, new relationships, blended families and the future you want to create.

You may be a grandparent, carer, sibling or friend. Learn how to offer steady support without becoming overwhelmed or drawn into the conflict.
How to Tell Your Children About Separation and Divorce
A practical, sensitive course to help you decide what your children need to know.
How much to tell them
How to explain what will change
How to offer reassurance
How to respond to their questions and feelings
How to keep talking as family life changes
Life's most difficult conversations, with more confidence and clarity
A six-week guided course on having life's most difficult conversations.
How much to tell them
How to explain what will change
How to offer reassurance
How to respond to their questions and feelings
How to keep talking as family life changes
How to Tell Your Children About Separation and Divorce
Life's most difficult conversations, with more confidence and clarity
A practical, sensitive course to help you decide what your children need to know.
How much to tell them
How to explain what will change
How to offer reassurance
How to respond to their questions and feelings
How to keep talking as family life changes
A six-week guided course on having life's most difficult conversations.
How much to tell them
How to explain what will change
How to offer reassurance
How to respond to their questions and feelings
How to keep talking as family life changes
Eve's active presence at least three times a week
Weekly written questions and answers
Recordings of every live session
The Navigating with Heart course
A growing resource library
Private participation away from social media
A monthly prize of a private 45-minute coaching session with Eve
Fortnightly Live Answers Hour
Monthly teaching sessions
Expert contributions
The six-week Conversations at the Shoreline course
Pathways for deciding, divorcing, rebuilding and supporting someone
The option to use a pseudonym
£50 standard per month
£35 per month, incl. VAT
Your founding rate stays fixed while your membership continues
Founding membership closes 31 August 2026, or when all 60 places are taken.
Led by an accredited psychotherapist · You can cancel before your next payment.
I am Eve Stanway, a divorce coach, psychotherapist, author and specialist in difficult conversations. For more than 25 years I have worked with people through some of the hardest periods of their lives. My experience is professional and personal. I was seven when my parents divorced and was raised by my father from that age. My own children were 10 and 15 when I separated, and I supported them through our changing family while navigating the emotional, practical and financial realities of divorce. I represented myself throughout the court process, all the way to the final hearing. I understand how separation affects your children, home, finances, sleep, confidence and sense of who you are.
Understand what is happening beneath the words and reactions.
Find clear, considered language that sounds like you.
Focus on what you can influence and choose your next step with care.
Eve's work focuses strongly on helping men and fathers, because they are often poorly served by divorce support. The community welcomes everyone, whatever their gender, gender identity or sexual orientation. Neurodivergent members are welcome, and the community explores the added complexities that autism, ADHD and other forms of neurodivergence can bring to relationships, communication, parenting and separation. It also welcomes the relatives, carers and friends who provide a steady anchor for someone facing separation.
The first 60 members will help establish the culture of the Dare to Speak Community. They will begin its conversations and help shape its future teaching and resources. Founding membership is £35 per month, including VAT. The standard price will be £50 per month. Your founding rate stays fixed while your membership continues. You can cancel before your next monthly payment. If you leave and return later, the price available at that time will apply.
Founding membership closes 31 August 2026, or when all 60 places are taken.
Accredited psychotherapist · 25+ years' experience · As featured in The Times and Daily Mail
Everyone is welcome.
Eve's work focuses strongly on men and fathers because they are often poorly served by divorce support. The community also welcomes partners, grandparents, carers, aunts, uncles, siblings, friends and wider family members supporting someone through separation or divorce.
Members of every gender, gender identity and sexual orientation are welcome.
No.
You may be questioning your relationship, considering separation, living with a partner while facing a breakup, going through divorce or rebuilding afterwards.
You may also join because you are supporting someone you care about.
Yes.
The community welcomes neurodivergent members and will explore the ways neurodivergence can affect relationships, communication, parenting, conflict and separation.
No. It is hosted on a private platform away from Facebook and public social media.
Yes. You may use a pseudonym as your visible community name.
You will still need to provide the information needed to create and pay for your account. This information will be held securely outside the visible community.
No.
Every live session will be recorded and posted inside the community. You can attend live, watch later or use the written discussions and resources.
You can read, listen and learn until you feel ready to participate.
I ask every founding member to leave at least one comment. If you would rather send your comment privately, email me at [email protected]. With your permission, I will post it in the community and reply there.
No.
The Dare to Speak Community provides coaching, education and peer support. It does not provide therapy, crisis care, medical treatment or legal advice.
Members will be told about planned leave in advance. The community, recordings, courses and resource library will remain available.
The community has its own terms and conditions and privacy policy. Please read both before joining.
Information, posts and recordings from the community must not be shared outside it without permission.
Yes. You can cancel before your next monthly payment.
Your founding rate remains available only while your membership is continuous.
Bring the question keeping you awake. Bring the message you do not know how to answer. Bring the decision you have been trying to make alone. Inside, you will find experienced guidance, practical resources and people who understand.
£35 per month including VAT · Founding rate fixed while your membership continues